pathetic
adjective
°Arousing pity, sympathy, or compassion.
"The old man’s pathetic pleas for forgiveness stirred the young man’s heart."
°Arousing scornful pity or contempt, often due to miserable inadequacy.
"You can't even run two miles? That’s pathetic."
synonyms: pitiful, wretched, miserable, disgraceful more» , shameful, despicable, dishonorable